Rubber band theory dating
he was pursuing initially and has been in regular contact but the last 3 days has gone quiet aside from a call i missed from him and when i returned it (unanswered) i got a text saying he would call me the next day. i'm sure i will but my question is, what should my position on this be? it's a bit rude of him and indication he's not that interested if has nearly dropped off the radar all of a sudden and therefore give him a wide berth/take with a pinch of salt or....2.a predictable part of the aforementioned 'male intimacy cycle/rubber band effect' and nothing to worry about so if/when i hear from him i should be upbeat and normal.It's too early and not yet committed for you to make a fuss about anything but that doesn't mean you have to tolerate behaviour that isn't acceptable to you.Decide what's acceptable and act attempt to generalize individual motives across groups is false. you are angry at and suspicious of this guy because you didn't get what you want, which is that your expectation of post-coital interaction be met.Only you know whether you find his behavior rude or not, and the only thing that will happen if you pretend you don't mind, just because an article in a Women's magazine says you should, all that will happen is that your irritation will become a future land mine, waiting to blow up NEXT time he does something that annoys you.* You don't know why he isn't communicating as much as you want him to, and nor does anyone other than him know.The only thing you can be sure of right now, is that YOU feel put out.
If he just invited me over for a sleepover, I'd probably assume he had moved me into the FB category and for me, that wouldn't work so I would explain that to him and take it from there.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...this kind of reasoning appeals to the inexperienced or simple-minded because it purports to offer a short cut past the process of getting to know someone by interacting with them, which is so pesky and time-consuming and, well, WORK. with self-knowledge, you wouldn't need to ask whether such an expectation is reasonable.
That's the guy who blew you off to get drunk with his friends.Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.further thoughts or insight from you male creatures greatly appreciated as I continue to work at making sense of you and/or avoid being taken for a ride!