Girly men dating
Sometimes her hair is in a messy ponytail and a hat, but other times she looks like she just stepped off the red carpet.
She can spend a day on the boat, fishing and wakeboarding, hunting, shooting guns, or eating unlimited chicken wings with you. She is go with the flow and always up for anything and everything.
She has a guy’s sense of humor so you will constantly be laughing together. She knows how to handle your sarcasm, and she’ll throw it right back in your face. Your friends will love her because she is basically one of the guys (except for the facts that she smells good and shaves her legs). She can kick your ass in dizzy bat, pool or maybe, on a good day, beat you in shot-gunning. Little things don’t bother her- she is rational and level headed. she knows the ways to your heart whether it is an amazing home cooked meal or a good back scratch. She’ll eat pizza and drink beer with you, and maybe if you are lucky she’ll even smoke a cigar.
She knows how to put things into perspective and knows what is worth getting mad over and what just isn’t. She is always thinking of ways to make your day because she is thoughtful. She will call you out on your BS, because let's be honest...
The goal here was to remove the potentially confounding elements of live social interaction (smiling, physical attractiveness) to see if they could isolate how much responsiveness—or niceness—played into attraction.
The third and final study presented in the paper sought to test specifically whether the mechanism by which “responsiveness” motivated individuals to pursue relationships was, in fact, sexual arousal.
The researchers found that men who perceived possible female partners as responsive found them to be “more feminine and more attractive.” Past research suggests that physical cues of femininity stimulate sexual attraction because they suggest higher estrogen levels, better overall mate quality and solid reproductive health.
While the studies shed some light on why men find responsive women more sexually desirable, Birnbaum explains that researchers are still unsure why women are less sexually attracted to responsive strangers than men.
"Our findings show that this does not necessarily hold true in an initial encounter, because a responsive potential partner may convey opposite meanings to different people,” stated Birnbaum.